I don't know about Girls or Women's mentality about Trust in one relationship but I am a Boy and as per my view men's mentality about trust in any relationship is Orthodox.
Actually the problem is that we don't know how to Forgive someone for their mistakes.
In our Indian culture we respect women and we think that women are goddess incarnate and also in our holy books there is no Vamp. we always want to see a liberal facet in women.
In past there was so many reasons for that women sacrificed and lived under the men's thumbs like family responsibility , social fear, lack of self confidence and total dependency on men. But now things have changed and there are so many avenues opened for women. Due to the freedom to live free women want to fulfill their happiness, their desires which was sacrificed from women in past. And as per my view this is a good move and also this is everybody's birth right to live the way he or she want.
But the problem is we, the men who always think we are superior than women, are not accepting the change and we want to treat women like we did in the past.
Let's come to main topic trust and forgiveness. As per my view we can say the attribute of trust is for men and that of forgiveness is for women. Because men always trust easily and women always forgive.
But the point is that if a committed man cheats his girlfriend and after sometime when he realize that this was all wrong and he goes to his girlfriend and accepts everything truthfully I bet his girlfriend is going to forgive him and in future she will never complain of his past mistakes.
then why we men are unable to do this. Because our own ego does not allow us to do so, our ego that ordered us to put women under own thumbs and treated her inferior.
So at last I want to say that if women want change and if they are able to change the social barrio then we must help them and try to encourage them because this is important for betterment of life for both men and women.
Actually the problem is that we don't know how to Forgive someone for their mistakes.
In our Indian culture we respect women and we think that women are goddess incarnate and also in our holy books there is no Vamp. we always want to see a liberal facet in women.
In past there was so many reasons for that women sacrificed and lived under the men's thumbs like family responsibility , social fear, lack of self confidence and total dependency on men. But now things have changed and there are so many avenues opened for women. Due to the freedom to live free women want to fulfill their happiness, their desires which was sacrificed from women in past. And as per my view this is a good move and also this is everybody's birth right to live the way he or she want.
But the problem is we, the men who always think we are superior than women, are not accepting the change and we want to treat women like we did in the past.
Let's come to main topic trust and forgiveness. As per my view we can say the attribute of trust is for men and that of forgiveness is for women. Because men always trust easily and women always forgive.
But the point is that if a committed man cheats his girlfriend and after sometime when he realize that this was all wrong and he goes to his girlfriend and accepts everything truthfully I bet his girlfriend is going to forgive him and in future she will never complain of his past mistakes.
then why we men are unable to do this. Because our own ego does not allow us to do so, our ego that ordered us to put women under own thumbs and treated her inferior.
So at last I want to say that if women want change and if they are able to change the social barrio then we must help them and try to encourage them because this is important for betterment of life for both men and women.
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